Falling in love with polyamorous men for whom polyamory is an important part of any relationship? Frankly, this isn’t the subject of the article, and I don’t really appreciate the assumption that I just hadn’t already thought of that.

For more on why I don’t think it’s healthy to be in a monogamous relationship with a polyamorous partner (for me), please see my journals from 2016–2018 and the thousands of times I banged my head against a wall.

The answer to your question is also already answered in the article — I’m trying it to see if it works for me authentically underneath the layers of conditioning I didn’t choose to have. I’m not sure why I took the time to respond to this as I’m already annoyed at things that have nothing to do with you but that’s probably why — because I’m annoyed at unrelated things and needed to vent real quick about something at someone.

TL;DR — Yeah, I’d already thought of that. Thanks.