I mean, I felt the same about polyamory because I associated it with my own lived experiences of trauma — until I realized my reactions to polyamory were just transferred reactions to specific trauma I faced and had nothing whatsoever to do with the form the trigger took.

In realizing that, but with literally every form, lies the peace of God.

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